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Why is it hard for a 53 Y/O twice divorced Chinese woman to meet a man for marriage?

May 21st, 2010 9 comments

Are men on a marriage strike because of the divorce laws? Are they afraid of losing assets, alimony, child support , thrown out of their house because of a false domestic violence charge, being jailed for false abuse or not being able to pay alimony, spousal support? Are men in their 50s interested in younger women?

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Was it okay for my step mom to tell me It would ruin her marriage if I moved back in with my dad?

May 21st, 2010 13 comments

Me and Gina had a conversation. I dont know how It got brought up but I’ve been wanting to move back in with my dad for my grades, since he has a move active life (which I need). And he’s good at helping me with my homework.

Gina told me straight up she didn’t want me to move in full time because It’d ruin her marriage with my dad.

I told my mom that and she said it was completely rude. I found it a bit rude too, but I sorta understood what she was saying. But it was selfish wasn’t it?

And for some backround information…shes chinese hes white, and I’m 99% sure he found her on some chinese dating site. She was in China before she married my dad. I wasn’t invited to their wedding. Nor was my brother.

Anyways what do you think?
He’s a bit selfish himself. Yeah.
He knows and accepts it.
I dont think he wants me to interfear with him and his wife’s life either.

I love them both, they’re nice. I guess just a bit messed up.
I’m 15… why would I ask my dad for help on my homework when Im over 20..?

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Do men plan to meet new women after marriage? Is that really a marriage even if he is monogamous?

May 21st, 2010 5 comments

If he plans, or planned to continue to introduce himself to new women after getting “married”, is that love and devotion? Is that dedication to marriage?
What is that?
What is the motivation for “socializing” without a wife? Why is that okay?
Is that setting himself up to have any woman that comes along just in case, even if he is monogamous?
I mean, I can’t imagine accepting a marriage proposal and telling the guy, I want to introduce myself to men, and meet new men to socialize and share good times with them whenever I can be away from my new husband. (not when my husband was there, only when he’s not.) If was getting married, should care getting other men around me?
Is that “acceptable” as a marriage?

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Do men have more to lose in marriage than women?

May 21st, 2010 No comments

I think so. Divorce was illegal for a long time it was feminists who lobbied for it. Divorce is set up for women imo.

I see more and more women proposing to men and less and less men proposing. Also I see a lot of anti-marriage websites and blogs out there for men.

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Why do guys lose respect for girls who don’t wait till marriage?

May 21st, 2010 50 comments

I don’t get it. If a girl being monogamous and waits for the right time to have sex with their partner, why do guys lose respect for them? There are plenty of girls who haven’t waited until marriage, but at the same time they don’t sleep around or have one night stands. Why do guys lose respect for non virgins and why do they want to marry virgins when some of them sleep around themselves?

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If I have sex with a lot of girls before marriage will that make it harder to love my future wife?

May 21st, 2010 9 comments

I want to get married someday but I also don’t want to waste my youth being celibate.

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What do girls think about a guy who is saving his virginity for marriage? ?

May 21st, 2010 21 comments

Cause i am but people tell me that girls think its uncool and stupid…what do you girls think about a guy saving his virginity for marriage?

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How many Christian girls are virgins til marriage? How many atheists girls are virgins til marriage?

May 21st, 2010 17 comments

why do guys go for virgin girls for marriage even if they have slept with so many before?

May 21st, 2010 13 comments

this is mostly asian mentality is it the same elsewhere? why do guys look for the virgin itself for marriage when they are not?? n why we girls fear that if we are not virgin we are not going to have a happy marriage??

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Are there any good, cute girls out there these days that are waiting until marriage to have sex?

May 21st, 2010 No comments

Most of the people today don’t even wait until high school is over to have sex. In college, you see it all around you. Where are the girls that still think sex is something to save for marriage? Girls that have the option, but want to find a Mr. Right to share it with?
I am 23, and I am waiting for marriage

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