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Why do guys lose respect for girls who don’t wait till marriage?

I don’t get it. If a girl being monogamous and waits for the right time to have sex with their partner, why do guys lose respect for them? There are plenty of girls who haven’t waited until marriage, but at the same time they don’t sleep around or have one night stands. Why do guys lose respect for non virgins and why do they want to marry virgins when some of them sleep around themselves?

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  1. meh
    May 21st, 2010 at 13:05 | #1

    bag em and tag em

  2. Mark
    May 21st, 2010 at 13:12 | #2

    Unless you’re from spavio province, I don’t see this.

  3. Bubbles
    May 21st, 2010 at 14:04 | #3

    Some guys do, some don’t. Regardless they both should lose respect for one another because they are both equally doing bad things.

  4. ♥bubblez♥
    May 21st, 2010 at 14:54 | #4

    because it seems like they have no class

  5. Molly H
    May 21st, 2010 at 15:44 | #5

    tell me about it.

    guys are dumb. sorry.

  6. Rod Blagojevich
    May 21st, 2010 at 16:35 | #6

    I didn’t lose respect for mine

  7. whatwhat11
    May 21st, 2010 at 16:57 | #7

    I’m a teenage guy and i gain respect for them

  8. Jimmeh
    May 21st, 2010 at 17:46 | #8

    Because we like being the first. It says something about a girl who can wait for their true mate. Shows they have patience and we respect that. The girl will be 100 percent yours and hasn’t given herself to anyone else. So when you are married the thought of her being with other guys never crosses. Plus you don’t know what she disease she could potentially be carrying. Same for guys though.

  9. Veruca
    May 21st, 2010 at 18:06 | #9

    we’ll the right guy won’t loose respect

    but its probably because those guys want it now

    here’s something to think about:
    a guy sleeps around he’s a player
    a girl sleeps around she’s a whore

  10. x_scarred_heart_x
    May 21st, 2010 at 18:48 | #10

    i’ve actually never heard of these guys

  11. *Lashes*
    May 21st, 2010 at 18:56 | #11

    because guys are h o r ney

    and want things then and there

    its pathetic of boys to be that way

  12. Population Control
    May 21st, 2010 at 19:50 | #12

    Religious values is why.

  13. Porccupine
    May 21st, 2010 at 19:58 | #13

    stay the way you are. Mr. right will come along. Once you give it away, it is gone forever. I admire you!!

  14. Angelina L
    May 21st, 2010 at 20:08 | #14

    because bthey think there easy and the 1st time should be with one person for the rest of your life

  15. rabidkitty
    May 21st, 2010 at 20:40 | #15

    For the same reason Men don’t put on the underwear of the guy at the locker next to them at the Gym.

  16. Rusty B.
    May 21st, 2010 at 21:33 | #16

    Rank hypocrisy.

  17. nickyvegas
    May 21st, 2010 at 21:55 | #17

    my wife and i waited and then she cheated on me because she said she had nothing to compare it too. now she’s history. so do this answer your question?

  18. Brian
    May 21st, 2010 at 22:12 | #18

    I’m SOOOOOO not into virgins. Any girl I’m with needs to know how to fuck.

  19. Chookielowah
    May 21st, 2010 at 22:35 | #19

    Don’t overgeneralize, I lose respect for a girl if she DOES wait for marriage. It usually means she’s willing to sacrifice her happiness and worthwhile experiences because of a belief in something for no other reason than she was told to do so.

    Sex isn’t dirty. Sex isn’t wrong. Sex is the most pure thing in this fucked up world. And I wouldn’t want to be with anyone that doesn’t appreciate that.

  20. Gopo G
    May 21st, 2010 at 22:38 | #20

    univerasal clause,,,whatever a guy does is ok,but if woman does the same thing she is a slut

  21. Tyler B
    May 21st, 2010 at 23:38 | #21

    Because they want sex right then and there. When they want sex they REALLY REALLY want sex or else they will get it in another way by either masturbating or going to a strip club or asking another girl to do the business.

  22. stargal8892
    May 21st, 2010 at 23:50 | #22

    maybe you have encountered the wrong guys. But most guys don’t lose respect for women who have sex and are not WHORES.

  23. Stephanie S
    May 22nd, 2010 at 00:39 | #23

    It all depends on the guy. Some guys don’t mind if their gf has had previous partners. You just have to do what is right for you. I intend to wait until marriage and have had plenty of boyfriends who respect that. If they didn’t I’m not going to waste my time. They’re dating you, not your lady parts. Hahaha.

  24. Jen
    May 22nd, 2010 at 01:16 | #24

    I don’t really notice this.
    I think guys are alot more open minded about sex as girls are, and although yeah some guys may think having a virgin is a plus, alot of guys don’t make this into a big deal in their relationships.
    They fall inlove with the woman, not her vagina you know.

  25. Jack C
    May 22nd, 2010 at 01:49 | #25

    First of all, guys should have the same standards for themselves. That being said, assuming a guy is a virgin, it is easy to understand why he would lose respect for a girl that has lost it without being married. Simple: It’s such an easy temptation to avoid, so it doesn’t say much for one’s character or self-control. However, this does not have to mean the person should be shunned as mistakes can be learned from and people can improve their lives.

  26. Lorie
    May 22nd, 2010 at 02:49 | #26

    because they probably feel like they are dirty whores who sleep around with other guys. but i depends on the guy. and it probably seems like they have no class

  27. Jason
    May 22nd, 2010 at 03:42 | #27

    If you meet a guy that loses respect for that kind of girl, you should lose respect for that kind of guy! Guys these days are just too horny for their own good, and even though they may be good people on the inside, their hormones can easily get the best of them. Sometimes the guy can be a prick. Other times, you can’t necessarily blame the guy.

    On behalf of all guys who lose respect for girls who wait till marriage, I sincerely apologize!

    Don’t worry, the right guy will come along who will support this kind of girl 100%.

    Good luck :)

  28. bear11288
    May 22nd, 2010 at 04:18 | #28

    Guys don’t care about marrying virgins, they rather sleep with virgins b/c it feels better to them.

  29. x_anniee
    May 22nd, 2010 at 05:08 | #29

    Because they are not forceful. They like virgins because they know they are pure-ish (aha, or at least committed to abstenance). To be honest, non virgin’s aren’t the most innocent people, ya know? So yeahh x)

  30. Joy L
    May 22nd, 2010 at 05:17 | #30

    For the same reason that a self-respecting girl should not want a guy who has slept around with different girls. The person you end up marrying wants to spend his/her life with you, and they don’t like thinking that they are going where someone (or lots of someones) have been. Best thing is to stay a virgin till marriage and hope that you find a guy who is one as well.

  31. dr.ruthless64
    May 22nd, 2010 at 05:17 | #31

    What rock were you living under? Are you a virgin or is this just a requirement for you? Get real or marry a 14 year old

  32. pimpinette1985
    May 22nd, 2010 at 05:27 | #32

    not all guys do, but some do. maybe because they know that someone else has been with the person they love.. and there not going to be the first.idk lol

  33. ana!luvs!blade
    May 22nd, 2010 at 05:28 | #33

    ur question is confusing…. i’ve never met a guy who has lost his respect for a virgin. ive met plenty who have gained respect for their women when they found out they were virgins. it makes men feel like they r special. same for women.

  34. ckie_mnstr213
    May 22nd, 2010 at 06:04 | #34

    i get freakin laughed at for being a virgin…i dont know though, but i would like to meet a guy who doesnt care if i’m a virgin and isnt just going to try and screw me and then leave just to say that he took my viriginity…cuz i know a bunch of guys who want to try that with me…

  35. Nympho in Red
    May 22nd, 2010 at 06:41 | #35

    AS IF ANY MAN REMAINS A VIRGIN… WHERE DO THEY THINK ALL THESE PERFECT LITTLE VIRGINS WILL APPEAR FROM? IT MAKES ME SO ANGRY.

  36. wolf
    May 22nd, 2010 at 07:18 | #36

    cuz. .ur suppost to wait cuz 9-10 times ur not gonna marry the bitch! .. i reather fine a virgin. no that im her 1st and she mines a.s.a.p anytime anywhere any condom

  37. me.
    May 22nd, 2010 at 07:52 | #37

    Some religions look down on premarital sex. If a guy is religious he will most likely have more respect for a virgin. That being said, these guys are usually virgins themselves. I don’t know why any guy who sleeps around wouldn’t have respect for someone who wasn’t a virgin though.

  38. Joe C
    May 22nd, 2010 at 08:49 | #38

    The real underlying trouble is ‘living in denial’. The mystique to bust is that puritanical people actually wait till marriage to have sex, and that somehow that makes them better than those of us ( “the sluts”) who didn’t, when in fact the sex drive is strong and alive in most healthy individuals. Still, if we want to ‘play that game’, and only have one partner all our lives, sluts don’t fit in the picture… It isn’t the slut that’s the problem, it’s the picture.

  39. AngelLuv20
    May 22nd, 2010 at 09:41 | #39

    Haha double standard right? Well it is true that most not all guys prefer a virgin when they get married, the bottom line is if you are not one you just have to find a guy who will accept you for that and you can accept him for his monogamous relationships. Guys hate it when they get married and their wife already been with 2, 3, 5 and more guys. It makes them feel like they are being used, when they could have done the same i know, but they prefer her to be “pure” or atleast not that experienced. Ofcouse this doesn’t pertain to virgin guys waiting for marriage, because they prefer VIRGIN ONLY girlfriends.

  40. babigurl
    May 22nd, 2010 at 10:10 | #40

    Okay, guys want sex. Well let me rephrase that cuz it’s not true. Some guys want only sex. It’s terrible, they do whatever they can to get it. and some girls let them have it. If you’re a virgin then some guys find that hott too. When i told my ex i was a virgin he was like soooo excited. I asked him why do guys like that he said he didn’t know. It’ skinda like marking their territory in a way, or because girls usually always remember their firsts. Some guys that sleep around with many girls, they have their “fun times” and then want a virgin because they don’t want a risk of an STD or a “dirty girl”. It’s wierd. I say everyone stays a virgin and there wouldn’t be a problem. =D

  41. kristi_canon
    May 22nd, 2010 at 11:05 | #41

    i have never herd of this

  42. Freya S
    May 22nd, 2010 at 11:12 | #42

    Im waiting until marriage or close to it even. Im srry im not into losong it at 16 :( I think guys are WAY hotter when they havent had sex with 6 different sluts.If it bothers you that bad then find a guy just like you, a guy that slept with the wrong chick 5 too many times. I think its ok for guys to have their opinions on girls who couldnt wait. We are in america arent we…? why dont u just not get mad at people for having an opinion, close ur legs, and get over it. Girls like u are stupid!

  43. jessica m
    May 22nd, 2010 at 11:34 | #43

    its not that they lose respect its more like every man enjoys a good chase! u dont have to wait till marriage but you should wait because if u have sex with someone to early and it was tooo easy theyre guna think that your like that with EVERYONE, when we all know that may not be the case! not to mention youre more likely to have an STD in there mind and in reality as well. sew is more enjoyable if you wait anyways. its just like waiting for christmas!

  44. mr. bojangles
    May 22nd, 2010 at 12:22 | #44

    Are you telling me that there are still virgins before marriage? Holy crap i never would have known. Here’s the thing, you never know about your partner so you girls who want to wait till marriage don’t want to give it up because deep down you really don’t know for sure if the “guy of your dreams” is gonna stick around after he gets in there. Now the guys thinking, WOW i’m gonna be with this woman for the rest of my life, so i need to see what this is like.

  45. lbclerk
    May 22nd, 2010 at 12:52 | #45

    It’s sad to know this is happening without any conscious whatsoever all the time…please wait until you get married.

  46. Anthony
    May 22nd, 2010 at 13:28 | #46

    i wouldnt mind as long as its not some std infested slut that throws herself at any thing that breathes but if they actually got to know the person and was actually in a relationship with them why not

  47. Apple Tree
    May 22nd, 2010 at 14:26 | #47

    I’m sure there are also women who lose respect for males who don’t wait for marriage. Devoutly religious women.
    Religious people come in all genders.

  48. Lexi
    May 22nd, 2010 at 15:21 | #48

    Thats BS…..I’ve never met a guy who “lost respect” because a girl wasn’t a virgin. A guy would rather know you may have some skill in bed than to think your inexperienced with the possibility of being terrible in the sack. Some guys however go for that virgin thing….makes them feel special that they got you first.

  49. bloodykayla
    May 22nd, 2010 at 15:36 | #49

    cuz they are jerks and most of these gurls in the world are dirty girls like they cheat on theyre bf with other guys and girls are always teasing guys with how they dress im nott a virgin but guys still have respect for me im not married cuz im still young but yea alot of guys are nice out there u just gotta find the right one and when i was a virgin i kinda noticed they liked virgins cuz they use to always wanna bang meh soo tell em to go f**ck themselfs if they dont have respect im layin down the law! haha im stupid but yeash thats all true

  50. thealternativemind
    May 22nd, 2010 at 15:59 | #50

    I don’t know what kind of guys your dating but we don’t loose respect for girls who wait, we loose interest. We don’t loose respect for girls who sleep around as long as we don’t know about it. I have known many sluts and I respect them still.

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